Today, I went to the Coolidge Corner Theatre in Brookline to attend a screening of A Real Pain starring Kieran Culkin and Jesse Eisenberg (who also wrote and directed the film).
Before getting to the substance of A Real Pain, this was my first time attending a movie at Coolidge Corner since attending a screening of Midnight Cowboy in July 2023. In the year and a half which has followed, the 90-year-old plus movie house has undergone a renovation which has made it quite the attraction again.
I actually tried to see A Real Pain on Friday night, but all showings were sold out. Back in August, I had plans to see 2001: A Space Odyssey, but it too was sold out. Having been burned twice, I made the point of buying my ticket online and sent to my phone. The wonders of post-modern technology.
A Real Pain is a story of two cousins who fly to Poland to honor their recently deceased grandmother who had survived the Holocaust. The two cousins are part of a tour group which views the Warsaw Ghetto and the Majdanek concentration camp before leaving the tour to find their grandmother's childhood home.
The two cousins, while close since childhood, are polar opposites in terms of temperament and disposition. Benji (Culkin) is the outgoing life of the party who was closer of the two to his grandmother while David (Eisenberg) is more analytical and reserved. Benji is whiling the way the hours smoking weed while David is juggling a wife, child and a job in the hi-tech sector.
Both men, however, are shielding demons. Benji is manic-depressive and prone to fits of anger wondering why they are traveling to a concentration camp by train in first class as he thinks of his grandmother. David's turmoil revolves around worrying about Benji and his moods while at the same time envying him for being the guy everyone loves and his outward fearlessness.
The sense I got is that despite their visit to Poland to get in touch with what their grandmother endured, the experience doesn't really change them much. David goes back to wife, child and job in New York while Benji is back at the airport where we found him at the beginning of the movie having nowhere really to go. Their real pain shall remain with them.
I was aware that Jennifer Grey was in the movie, but did not recognize her until the credits rolled. Grey plays Marcia, a divorcee whose mother was a Holocaust survivor. Benji and Marcia flirt with each other a bit but it doesn't go beyond that. Grey is old enough to be Culkin's mother (she is 64 while he is 42). Whatever her age, Jennifer Grey is sexy as all hell, and I don't care who knows.
A Real Pain has been nominated for and won several prestigious awards particularly for Culkin's acting and Eisenberg's screenplay. I will not be surprised if Golden Globe and Oscar nominations are to follow.